Ok not sure if this helps, lots of r/ex but it does give an idea on where to put your focus, its where I put mine, and yes, its open for discussion:
TP
Weapons: Senju/Unji
Body:Haub +1
Neck: Hope torque
Waist: swift belt
Earrings: Suppanomimi/Brutal
Rings: Rajas, Blood ring
Hands: Day/dusk gloves, night/Koga tekko +1
Legs: Haidate
Feet: Fuma Sune-ate
Back: Chargers mantle
Ammo: Fire Bomblet
Head: turban
WS
Weapons: Senju/Unji
Body:Haub +1
Neck: Breeze gorget
Waist: Warwolfe belt
Earrings: day/Hollow earring, Triumph earring, night/ Hollow and Vampire ear
Rings: Rajas, Flame ring
Hands: Day/Ninja tekko +1, night/Koga tekko +1
Legs: Haidate
Feet: Day/Rutters, Night/Koga kyahan
Back: Forager's mantle
Ammo: Fire bomblet
Head: Shura
Yes, its very sad, I am still working on perdue but getting close. And sorry I know this does not help with AH TP/WS gear but I love this set up with pizza +1 and keeps me on par/keeping hate against most DD in Merits. so if you like my set up you can try to model from AH gear.