it's called
"Balance"You need to find it.
Personally, I'm up at 6am each day for work and I'm not in till 6:30pm.
Pay bills, maintain my life
(IE: Laundry, Cook, Clean, etc).I have a social life of hanging with friends, hitting the bars on the weekend, movies, etc. And also indulge in other video games
(BTW, Batman Arkham Asylum kicks ***)Yet... I still find time to enjoy the hell outta FFXI, maintain my LS's website and run about 3-5 events per week.
It's all about the Balance.
As long as you don't sacrifice one thing for another, you'll be fine.