Asura.Lolserj said: »
I'm a ***
yeah me too.
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Shiva.Nikolce said: » Shiva.Spathaian said: » So it's purely religiously significant to you? No. there are no loopholes in my marraige. I think it's a either promise that can't be broken. or you just shouldn't do it. In a weird your word is your bond and if you don't keeo your word you aren't a man type of deal. when you think about, in a "traditional wedding" you make a promise to your wife, her father, the rest of her family, all of your family and everyone else you invited which may or may not include "god" not to be a douchebag you're going to love honor and cherish her until you die no matter what. and sure, that can mean different things to different people so you should probably lay out all the ground rules beforehand so everyone has a clear understanding of the deal I guess technically the loophole here might be killing your spouse Shiva.Nikolce said: » Shiva.Spathaian said: » So it's purely religiously significant to you? No. there are no loopholes in my marraige. I think it's a either promise that can't be broken. or you just shouldn't do it. In a weird your word is your bond and if you don't keeo your word you aren't a man type of deal. when you think about, in a "traditional wedding" you make a promise to your wife, her father, the rest of her family, all of your family and everyone else you invited which may or may not include "god" not to be a douchebag you're going to love honor and cherish her until you die no matter what. and sure, that can mean different things to different people so you should probably lay out all the ground rules beforehand so everyone has a clear understanding of the deal One of the partners was not cherished or honored and had not been for multiple years. Does that not constitute a breaking of word and contract and therefore make a divorce the right option? Where do you draw the line? Asura.Lolserj said: » I guess technically the loophole here might be killing your spouse no I would have to kill myself. that's when the contract ends.
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Shiva.Spathaian said: » Does that not constitute a breaking of word and contract and therefore make a divorce the right option? My word to be loyal honest faithfull etc is irregardless to the other person's behavior which you can't control anyways. It would be dumb, I think, to make a promise if you have no intention of keeping it if the other person gets ill, as one example I mean, I think of marriage as a contract to hopefully be married ubtil someone dies
But realistically that isn't always the case, believing otherwise is honestly foolish ***happens, sometimes another person with your spouse in bed included Nothing against people who have an arrangement with their spouse to freely see other people
most people, when they think about the future, only think about the good parts. the happilly ever after.
my wife could pull a britney spears, shave her head bald, get strung out on crystal meth and bone everyone in range. that doesn't change my promise. and that's what I'm saying. If the other person's behavior can influence your side of the deal than it isn't a real deal to begin with
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Asura.Lolserj said: » correct. you can take my wedding ring off my cold dead hand
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Asura.Lolserj said: » Nothing against people who have an arrangement with their spouse to freely see other people No exactly. That's their deal. If that is what marraige means to them and they sorted all that out before hand, super. i
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Shiva.Nikolce said: » most people, when they think about the future, only think about the good parts. the happilly ever after. my wife could pull a britney spears, shave her head bald, get strung out on crystal meth and bone everyone in range. that doesn't change my promise. and that's what I'm saying. If the other person's behavior can influence your side of the deal than it isn't a real deal to begin with Shiva.Nikolce said: » correct. you can take my wedding ring off my cold dead hand I think a lot of people don't really understand what "married" is supposed to mean Including a fair number of married people, really
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Shiva.Nikolce said: » most people, when they think about the future, only think about the good parts. the happilly ever after. my wife could pull a britney spears, shave her head bald, get strung out on crystal meth and bone everyone in range. that doesn't change my promise. and that's what I'm saying. If the other person's behavior can influence your side of the deal than it isn't a real deal to begin with Love them or not, if I get married and they try to kill me that ***is getting shut down. No exceptions Idiot Boy said: » Shiva.Nikolce said: » correct. you can take my wedding ring off my cold dead hand I think a lot of people don't really understand what "married" is supposed to mean Including a fair number of married people, really hey some people get married because they need a new toaster, and I couldn't be forced to give a ***at gunpoint. all I'm saying is KNOW WHAT YOU ARE AGREEING TO
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Asura.Lolserj said: » Shiva.Nikolce said: » most people, when they think about the future, only think about the good parts. the happilly ever after. my wife could pull a britney spears, shave her head bald, get strung out on crystal meth and bone everyone in range. that doesn't change my promise. and that's what I'm saying. If the other person's behavior can influence your side of the deal than it isn't a real deal to begin with Love them or not, if I get married and they try to kill me that ***is getting shut down. No exceptions They've got places to be! Idiot Boy said: » Shiva.Nikolce said: » correct. you can take my wedding ring off my cold dead hand I think a lot of people don't really understand what "married" is supposed to mean Including a fair number of married people, really I mean "married" means to you what it means to you, of marriage is a contract that can be voided to you that's fine If not it is also fine, but I personally find that crazy Idiot Boy said: » Shiva.Nikolce said: » correct. you can take my wedding ring off my cold dead hand I think a lot of people don't really understand what "married" is supposed to mean Including a fair number of married people, really No seriously, I'm a bit confused. Does it mean zero or is tennis lying to me... again...
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Asura.Dameshi said: » Teach me what love means, Uncle Rooks. No seriously, I'm a bit confused. Does it mean zero or is tennis lying to me... again... We aren't talking about love We are talking about marriage Do try to keep up, your Majesty
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Shiva.Spathaian said: » that is blatant breech of trust and breaking of your contract it's not though. again if they break their side that's their problem. If I promise you that I am going to do something until I die. and then quit for any reason other than dying. then what was the point of the promise?
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Shiva.Nikolce said: » Shiva.Spathaian said: » that is blatant breech of trust and breaking of your contract it's not though. again if they break their side that's their problem. If I promise you that I am going to do something until I die. and then quit for any reason other than dying. then what was the point of the promise? Idiot Boy said: » Asura.Dameshi said: » Teach me what love means, Uncle Rooks. No seriously, I'm a bit confused. Does it mean zero or is tennis lying to me... again... We aren't talking about love We are talking about marriage Do try to keep up, your Majesty PARKER I'm going to need a full intelligence briefing on this "marriage" topic. Talk slowly and start from the top. But first answer me one question. Is "marriage" contagious? Should we be contacting the CDC?
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Asura.Dameshi said: » Idiot Boy said: » Asura.Dameshi said: » Teach me what love means, Uncle Rooks. No seriously, I'm a bit confused. Does it mean zero or is tennis lying to me... again... We aren't talking about love We are talking about marriage Do try to keep up, your Majesty PARKER I'm going to need a full intelligence briefing on this "marriage" topic. Talk slowly and start from the top. But first answer me one question. Is "marriage" contagious? Should we be contacting the CDC? Quarantine yourself.
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Shiva.Spathaian said: » So what you're saying is it's not a shared contract, each person within the marriage makes their own and their only requirement is to uphold the one they made, they are not to care about their partners? I told my wife that even if she kicks me out of the house, divorces me (which anyone can legally do) and marries another guy, (which don't even get me started on second marraiges) and/or tries to kill me for the insurance money. I still wont ever take my ring off. My side of the agreement isn't dependant on anyone else's actions or inactions. She could fall into a coma ans stay there forty years, die in childbirth, IT DOESN"T MATTER you can't figure a way out of it. I already thought of every concievable possibility.
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I have a new found respect for Niko and I'm not sure how I feel about this.
Shiva.Nikolce said: » Idiot Boy said: » Shiva.Nikolce said: » correct. you can take my wedding ring off my cold dead hand I think a lot of people don't really understand what "married" is supposed to mean Including a fair number of married people, really hey some people get married because they need a new toaster, and I couldn't be forced to give a ***at gunpoint. all I'm saying is KNOW WHAT YOU ARE AGREEING TO Again, this really depends on a person's definition of marriage *walks in to thread*
*reads one sentence* nope *walks out*
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Shiva.Nikolce said: » Shiva.Spathaian said: » So what you're saying is it's not a shared contract, each person within the marriage makes their own and their only requirement is to uphold the one they made, they are not to care about their partners? I told my wife that even if she kicks me out of the house, divorces me (which anyone can legally do) and marries another guy, (which don't even get me started on second marraiges) and/or tries to kill me for the insurance money. I still wont ever take my ring off. My side of the agreement isn't dependant on anyone else's actions or inactions. She could fall into a coma ans stay there forty years, die in childbirth, IT DOESN"T MATTER you can't figure a way out of it. I already thought of every concievable possibility. And that is completely fine, but don't fault someone else for having a different opinion on how much commitment is required for their marriage |
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