I hate when a woman asks if she's fat. I just say thanx for asking and yes you do. Put me in a lose-lose situation and I'm just going for the worse answer and walk away. I really hate when they all keep talking about how fat they are and yet they don't do anything about it.
I used to tease my lil sis when we were kids, but now I don't say anything and be nice. Rarely see family so little things like that I stay away from.