Nothing is wrong with being organized when doing projects.
You seem to have it done by setting timetables and having objectives and specifics on when things need to be done.
It's one thing to have things ready by the deadline that was agreed upon and leave gentle reminders on due dates/times on when you/he needs stuff by for work. If he misses those dates/times then its an issue but if you're asking him for it constantly I can see why he may "lose his mind"
Might need to sit down with him or type up a well documented email explaining in detail everything that needs to be done and when due dates for things need to be.
I never pestered him about due dates at all actually. It was simply the content he provided me. He sent me a powerpoint and when I looked at it, he basically ignored our project and wrote up an economics-based presentation about the Taxi service industry... totally unusable.
I gave him an outline to fill out how he wanted, and he ignored it. We then had a meeting in class where when we left I felt really good about things... then I got an email that he "lost his notes driving home", and the next draft of the presentation was still butts.
I want to keep working with him, if for no reason other than the fact that people like him... people who read tech manuals and memorize terminologies but then can't login to a computer... those people are the people I will be working with some day. I want to continue experiencing this in a way I welcome it.
I already know the professor will grade me on what *I* present, so I am not worried about the grading. I just want to try and figure out how to handle this guy.
but like I said, not tonight, tonight I am going to relax!