Bismarck.Josiahkf said:
»Hi Kali and zahli as well, nice to see you two today.
zahli! haha
repost cause page
Bismarck.Josiahfk said:
»A place where people can think freely and post stuff without being subjugated to hateful comments or harassment
The problem arises when people fail to develope a way to convey themselves/their emotions in a healthy manner and begin to bully or harass people who aren't their friends.
Like if I started mocking flavin or nik or something out of the blue or insulting them; It's easy to do that behavior but a failure of the individual to do so, why I try hard to never. It's the behavior all of us at ~10 years old exhibit because we've yet to learn healthy ways to convey ourselves.
I have a great article written by an American psychologist I can link anyone to if curious, pm.
I know everyone isn't friends with everyone here, but for the majority of people who post in Ni and RT, I like to think we at least can all get along with each other. I mean, this isn't High School, the youngest ones here are ~20~22 years old, so there really is no reason for drama and pointless grudges. We post here because we want to have fun, chat and share, share RL downs and ups, and most importantly, our random thoughts and interests.
I think RT should be a place were we can all get along, where no one is excluded from conversation, and any past mistakes or conflicts with others are forgiven without a second thought. Where any random lurker can pop their head out and say hi, smile, wave, and are welcomed with open arms shouting "one of us!", bringing them out of their shell and helping them open up and really become apart of our little group everyone here has created and maintained over the years.
Where we celebrate certain events and holidays with silly avatar changes and themes. Where we can talk about something for pages and pages, then go pages more with just lil thoughts and sharing some images not worthy of a whole post in pics that make you LOL. Where we as a website community can come together and set a day aside to black out the site, hiding everyone's images to show some support even if our efforts had no meaningful impact, it's just nice to see that we care.
The site isn't nearly as active as it once was, but the main posters are still around, as well as the main lurkers. We're still here tho, still chatting and sharing with each other everyday. I hope that as a community we're able to forgive, forget, and continue being us, because that's what we've been for so long, and I'd hate to see that change.