Fenrir.Jinjo said: »
Bismarck.Eburo said: »
Why do grown *** men compete over who has had sex with more women?
As if our sole purpose in life is to go out and have sex with as many women as possible just for coolness, and even if you boned 3 women every minute, no one would believe you.
Aside from the fact it's completely pointless, how mature is it?
I haven't even looked for a relationship in a loooooong time because I'm not interested, yet some people think it's a good idea to make fun of me for it. If it's my choice how is it a problem? >_>
Also masturbation ftfw ~ It's sex with someone I love
As if our sole purpose in life is to go out and have sex with as many women as possible just for coolness, and even if you boned 3 women every minute, no one would believe you.
Aside from the fact it's completely pointless, how mature is it?
I haven't even looked for a relationship in a loooooong time because I'm not interested, yet some people think it's a good idea to make fun of me for it. If it's my choice how is it a problem? >_>
Also masturbation ftfw ~ It's sex with someone I love
Your question was phrased as sort of rhetorical, but you seem a tad clueless so I'll answer anyways. It reinforces a cult of hegemonic heterosexual masculinity, which in turn, yields a great deal of power and control. By seeking out women as sexual objects, it obfuscates their role as subjects and lends to a sense of ironic sexual entitlement.
Also, if a guy claimed to have sex with three women every minute, I'm pretty sure that gets to the point where an emphasis on his own sexuality can begin to work against him. Can't have a man needing a woman so much that women have sexual power over him, can you? Nope, certainly not.
You're obviously free to not seek out your own relationship. But I find it a tad ironic to call attention to the social implications of others choices but deny any call of attention to yours.
Anyways, your analysis is terribly misguided. Objectively, neither is wrong or right - only the socially constructed connotations of each deserve attention in terms of their morality, maturity, and whatever else.
Fair enough, I respect your opinion, I just think it's irrational for people to berate or harass me about my sex life when I'm not even trying. :/
Sure it's pretty easy to assume I'm a virgin because I have only had sex a handful of times, and I don't ever talk about it...
