Can't say the thought has never crossed my mind.. But come on.. This were common sense is supposed to take over... (kids will drive you insane, and even if it's only in a joking manner or to relieve stress, this stuff will run through your mind or out your mouth, at some point).
Can't say the thought has never crossed my mind.. But come on.. This were common sense is supposed to take over... (kids will drive you insane, and even if it's only in a joking manner or to relieve stress, this stuff will run through your mind or out your mouth, at some point).
Can't say the thought has never crossed my mind.. But come on.. This were common sense is supposed to take over... (kids will drive you insane, and even if it's only in a joking manner or to relieve stress, this stuff will run through your mind or out your mouth, at some point).
LOL, dumb *** people who aren't ready to be parents, hell they are only 20 and 19 themselves. Not saying everyone who is of that age isn't fit to be a parent, however these two clearly are not.
:< I was 19 when I had my son, I'd say I'm a good parent..
To be a parent though, you need to be pretty damn strong, mentally.. They will test you at every point, and push you to breaking point.
All my motivation to be a parent though, is really driven by the fact that mine abandoned me to go party and what not. My mom was 15 when she had me, my dad was maybe, 20? I just guessing, I don't even know him well enough to know how old he is. I only know my mom as much as I do (which isn't much) because after her and my dad split up, she started to come pick me up for the weekends (I was raised by my grandparents).
In some weird way, I want to show you don't have to be old or ready to be a parent, to be one.. We didn't plan to have a child this early, but when it happened I decided I had to be different from my parents and that just because you're young, doesn't mean you have to abandon your child.
Also, if I could take things back and not of had him, at least when we did, I probably would turn things back.. Not because I regret having him, I only regret having him when we did.. I've wanted to be a dad from pretty young, but I wanted to be able to spoil them.. The best we can do now is get him good Christmas/birthday presents and make sure he never goes hungry.
:< I was 19 when I had my son, I'd say I'm a good parent..
To be a parent though, you need to be pretty damn strong, mentally.. They will test you at every point, and push you to breaking point.
All my motivation to be a parent though, is really driven by the fact that mine abandoned me to go party and what not. My mom was 15 when she had me, my dad was maybe, 20? I just guessing, I don't even know him well enough to know how old he is. I only know my mom as much as I do (which isn't much) because after her and my dad split up, she started to come pick me up for the weekends (I was raised by my grandparents).
In some weird way, I want to show you don't have to be old or ready to be a parent, to be one.. We didn't plan to have a child this early, but when it happened I decided I had to be different from my parents and that just because you're young, doesn't mean you have to abandon your child.
Like I said, it's not the case with everyone when it comes to age, but the majority of people aren't ready to deal with the stress and whatnot that comes with having a child. By doing something like that to a two year old and a ten month old, who aren't old enough to comprehend much of anything, they just proved they aren't stable enough to be parents.
Yeah I know, I was just chiming in.. Even so I don't see being young as a good excuse for what they did.. I mean they could blame it on that, and probably get away with it and people won't view it as being as bad as if say a 35-40 year old couple had did the same, but age isn't an excuse. It's really all just in their mentality. This isn't at all related to your post, nor is it directed at you, but it just bothers (maybe even insults) me when people do something like this and then blame it on their age.
The entire situation is made worse by the fact that the parents aren't the ones who will end up paying, it it's the kids, and I know that's kinda cliche, but I grew up without my parents, it doesn't matter to the kid if you're well taken care of, you still feel different when you aren't raised by your parents. The actions of a parent have an effect on the child more than just the immediate or obvious, they always do.
Bummer, Rammstein is performing at Chicago, but the venue is right next to O'Hare which is fine, in terms of hotel accommodation and ease of transportation/getting back to the airport, but sucks in terms of doing stuff since The Loop is an hour's drive away with traffic from any of the cool stuff. I'd be bored as hell until the show unless I had a personal chauffeur.
But I think I'll end up going to the Glendale show anyways since Yomi really wants to go. Arizona, here I come (in May).
This is a thread that I found on another website I post at. It can be really really interesting. I thought it deserved a place here.
Post your random thoughts for the day here, or anything else that intrigues you.
For starters, is it possible to give constructive critism to someone who doesn't have a neck? I totally just walked by a girl who didn't. Someone isn't getting a necklace for Valentines day!
And who decided black and white can't be colors? I want to say a racist. I really do.