Three-and-a-half year old Hunter Spanjer, who is deaf, signs his name by crossing his forefinger and index finger and moving his hand up and down.
To his family, friends and those who know the Signing Exact English (S.E.E.) language that the Grand Island, Neb., boy uses, that gesture uniquely means "Hunter Spanjer."
But to Hunter's school district, it might mean something else. The district claims that it violates a rule that forbids anything in the school that looks like a weapon, reports KOLN-TV.
When I was in high school I had a couple guys I wasn't even dating ask me to hit them. I think it was just some weird macho thing, like trying to prove somehow that it wouldn't hurt if I hit them. I didn't do it, how awkward.
It's a bit flattering that a girl would trust Jos enough to ask for rape fantasy fulfillment. I've heard it's actually a common fantasy for women, not so much that they want to be raped, but they want someone to want them so bad right now that they just can't wait. It's not about power or pain in the rape fantasy, it's about desire for the girl. It seems strange to me, but it's supposedly not uncommon.
I'd say if Jos wants to indulge her, they should set the ground rules-- what exactly she wants and how (she's putting herself in a position of risk, which can be exciting for her but can also go badly.) Pick a safe word, make sure she's not going to use this against you, and proceed cautiously.
It's just me, but leave rape fantasy to dreams and fetish porn. WAY too much risk and margin for error to carry out such a thing in real life, even if you two knew each other very well and legitimately trusted each other.
Hrrrmmm...Not sure if I should add or not.
/cringes
IDK...I had a guy who wanted me to hit him...Like slap the ***out of or just a solid closed-fisted punch to the face. That was really weird. Never did it. Personally, I find that just way too bizarre. Just too awkward after that little request, so I left.
That's not really that weird.. I mean it's unusual.. But in comparison to all the other 'strange' fetishes out there... That's pretty mild.
Yeah...I know. I just really wasn't comfortable with the idea anyway.
It was the first time we had had sex together too, so I thought it was a joke, gave him a tap and laughed it off, then he yelled at me! So, needless to say, I was a little shocked. Not really something you do with people after only dating them for like a half-a month or so.
Not really the type of thing you (or at least I wouldn't) just spring on someone in the middle of it.. That's the kinda thing I'd have a discussion about first, while clothes are still on, and ask if it's something the other person might do.
i dated a chick who had a rape fantasy. not really my thing, but i tried. i waited for her to get home one night and i snuck up behind her and grabbed her and pushed her into her backseat. i covered her mouth with one hand and held her down with the other. she freaked out and started crying. i had to stop. then she told me to try it again eventually, but i dunno. that ***is just too hard. if it's not a little real it's just dumb and if it's real at all it's... ***...
also choking. iunno why so many girls wanna be choked. the last chick i hooked up with had me put a hand around her throat. she started like gasping for breath and when i went to move it she gripped my arm super tight so i wouldn't stop. she went all puffy and white in the face. was kinda creepy =o.
i dated a chick who had a rape fantasy. not really my thing, but i tried. i waited for her to get home one night and i snuck up behind her and grabbed her and pushed her into her backseat. i covered her mouth with one hand and held her down with the other. she freaked out and started crying. i had to stop. then she told me to try it again eventually, but i dunno. that ***is just too hard. if it's not a little real it's just dumb and if it's real at all it's... ***...
That's why i said just try some light bdsm stuff first, most of the time all they want is get bound and maybe fight back a bit >.>
The choking thing makes it easier to *** for some girls >:
It seems to stem from a want to be dominated in a submissive sense, the rough, primitive sense. Being gentle all the time is nice and all but every now and then need to remind them they are with a man, maybe that's where the need to feel dominated comes from :3 ?
there's a bit of a difference between being domineering and almost choking someone out. it's not like i find it offensive or anything. hell i did it lol. i just have a bit of a harder time keeping my stride when i'm concerned the chick may pass out. i just dun get it. i dun think i'd like being dominated.
Well, ni ni, I better not have more nightmares after this >_> had a horrible enough time last night on the zombie submarine trapped on the ocean floor when Spath bottled and woudn't pull the damn trigger v_V
This is a thread that I found on another website I post at. It can be really really interesting. I thought it deserved a place here.
Post your random thoughts for the day here, or anything else that intrigues you.
For starters, is it possible to give constructive critism to someone who doesn't have a neck? I totally just walked by a girl who didn't. Someone isn't getting a necklace for Valentines day!
And who decided black and white can't be colors? I want to say a racist. I really do.