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By Fenrir.Stiklelf 2012-05-11 09:10:46
Edit: I assume she would want to brag to all her friends, but a lot of her friends aren't gamers. So it'd be an awkward story to tell I guess. I dunno.
If you think that's something she'll appreciate then do it.
You're not going to marry her for he friends approval :P
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 Quetzalcoatl.Xueye
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By Quetzalcoatl.Xueye 2012-05-11 09:19:01
Row how long have you two been together?
Do you live together yet?
By Jetackuu 2012-05-11 09:20:48
ha Row.
Quetzalcoatl.Xueye
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By Quetzalcoatl.Xueye 2012-05-11 09:21:40
Okay, good. Give it some time after you officially live together before you propose. Ample time.
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By Asura.Dameshi 2012-05-11 09:24:59
Well I have to buy/pay for the ring first, and I have to ask her dad for permission and all that. Then I have to get second opinions from friends and family. First opinion: Yeah man sounds good.
Second opinion: GET OUT WHILE YOU CAN! IT'S A TRAP! FLEE, RUN FOR YOU LIFE!
Hope that helps.
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Quetzalcoatl.Xueye
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By Quetzalcoatl.Xueye 2012-05-11 09:25:23
I always wondered if I'll ask the father for permission.
If he says no, I'm still going to ask her. Just like my dad did /shrug
By Jetackuu 2012-05-11 09:34:57
don't understand the dad's permission, he doesn't own her, this is the 21st century now...
By Jetackuu 2012-05-11 09:36:30
still think it's antiquated as hell
Bismarck.Flavin
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Posts: 1338
By Bismarck.Flavin 2012-05-11 09:46:19
You think a lot of things are antiquated... besides it's not like asking the dad means the owns her lol... it's like Row said it's a respect thing and about showing your intentions. For some family is a big part of their lives and they want them involved.
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By Asura.Dameshi 2012-05-11 09:46:38
Weekend plans, Ni?
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Posts: 1338
By Bismarck.Flavin 2012-05-11 10:02:14
Saturday: paint ball and whatever else
Sunday: baseball and mother's day stuff
Quetzalcoatl.Xueye
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Posts: 6386
By Quetzalcoatl.Xueye 2012-05-11 10:03:16
You think a lot of things are antiquated... besides it's not like asking the dad means the owns her lol... it's like Row said it's a respect thing and about showing your intentions. For some family is a big part of their lives and they want them involved.
Sometimes, antiquated practices should not be continued based on our own moral system.
I cannot in any way support any notion that treats another human being as property, personally; particularly one I may want to spend the rest of my life with.
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Phoenix.Elspetta
サーバ: Phoenix
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Posts: 1670
By Phoenix.Elspetta 2012-05-11 10:06:40
Maybe I'll do the whole "propose at a baseball game" thing. She loves baseball games. That's cliche. Cliche or not, I always thought this would be a fun way to go about it!
Bismarck.Flavin
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By Bismarck.Flavin 2012-05-11 10:07:34
Quetzalcoatl.Xueye said: »You think a lot of things are antiquated... besides it's not like asking the dad means the owns her lol... it's like Row said it's a respect thing and about showing your intentions. For some family is a big part of their lives and they want them involved. Sometimes, antiquated practices should not be continued based on our own moral system. I cannot in any way support any notion that treats another human being as property, personally; particularly one I may want to spend the rest of my life with. Hey if you don't want to... don't. Not saying anyone should do what they don't want to... In this case it seems that he thinks its the best route to take...
It's not about ownership... It's about paying your respects to the family of the woman you love... is it the only way? no. is it necassary? depends on the person you're proposing to I guess.
I've known people girls who've required their soon to be husbands to go get permission from their fathers... I've also known some that don't like their family and don't care lol... either way each individual should approach it how they deem is best.
You guys are being silly though... You're acting as if Row is bartering for this girls hand and that he would not do it if the dad said no... /sigh
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By Leviathan.Catnipthief 2012-05-11 10:07:41
birthday party on saturday.
Sunday I have no *** clue.
Phoenix.Elspetta
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By Phoenix.Elspetta 2012-05-11 10:08:22
Quetzalcoatl.Xueye said: »You think a lot of things are antiquated... besides it's not like asking the dad means the owns her lol... it's like Row said it's a respect thing and about showing your intentions. For some family is a big part of their lives and they want them involved.
Sometimes, antiquated practices should not be continued based on our own moral system.
I cannot in any way support any notion that treats another human being as property, personally; particularly one I may want to spend the rest of my life with. It's not like the old days where you actually go in and ask for their daughter's hand in marriage. Today, more so, it is down out of respect, like was mentioned before. You sit him down and let him know his intentions.
And while a father does not own a daughter, it is still his baby girl and he would like to know she is in the right hands.
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By Jetackuu 2012-05-11 10:08:48
You think a lot of things are antiquated... besides it's not like asking the dad means the owns her lol... it's like Row said it's a respect thing and about showing your intentions. For some family is a big part of their lives and they want them involved. because a lot of things are antiquated.
It's a symbolic representation of that the father owns the daughter and he is courting her, which is the way things USED to be done.
I find it disgusting, because it's past is disgusting.
Tradition or not it's still messed up.
Quetzalcoatl.Xueye
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By Quetzalcoatl.Xueye 2012-05-11 10:09:17
I'm just chiming in. I think it's interesting when we talk about how we really feel and why we feel that way.
A little friendly arguing never hurt.
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By Phoenix.Elspetta 2012-05-11 10:09:43
Saturday - little man's purple belt test
Sunday - hopefully cook out on my new back deck for Mother's Day. I'm fairly positive I will get flower and heart shaped pancakes in bed from the boys. At least it will be in bed if they happen to wake up before me.
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By Jetackuu 2012-05-11 10:13:23
I find Row will do as he damn well pleases anyway.
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By Phoenix.Elspetta 2012-05-11 10:14:22
I find Row will do as he damn well pleases anyway. As he should, since he is the one looking to propose.
Bismarck.Flavin
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By Bismarck.Flavin 2012-05-11 10:15:26
Quetzalcoatl.Xueye said: »I'm just chiming in. I think it's interesting when we talk about how we really feel and why we feel that way. A little friendly arguing never hurt. Do you honestly think Row thinks of his g/f as property though? Do you really think that he in any way thinks he needs to what pass ownership from her father to him?
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By Ramuh.Laffter 2012-05-11 10:16:09
UGH Mother's day <__<
I'll figure something out for mine. :|
Edit: As of 2010-10-05 14:48:06 CST, Ni reached 10,000 pages.
Since we all can't be on the same linkshell in game, this can be our cross server linkshell thread.
Like most linkshells, it can be pretty dead at times. Other times it's full of intense conversations about either rl, gear, goals, pokemon or anything else you want to contribute.
We can cover any sort of topic at all, within reason of the forum rules. No real main topic, just a bunch of FFXIAH friends/people coming on and discussing random things.
http://www.nationstates.net/nation=royal_kingdom_of_ni
Continuation from: http://www.ffxiah.com/forum/topic/2873/ffxiah-linkshell/732/#150486
Update: Sorry Eternaltriumph, too much has changed D: (Page 698)
Eternaltriumph said: Yeah Chuu. Bringing you up to speed, Ludoggy is the LS pedophile. I'm the fountain of random and useless knowledge that makes you go "Hrm" with the occasional side of "holy shit he said what?"
Kungfu is the LS nutjob, spouting super random things that are usually sexist, until Savvy or Alyria comes into the room. Then he's a classic case of sexual harrassment. Rumaha is also true to the second part; we're wondering about his sexuality though.
Daj is Ludoggy's gay lover. Not much else is known about this Asuran. Tairo is kinda new, but since is a female and Alyria's lesbian lover, she fit right in real quick.
Celene(F) and Rowland(M) are more of the shyer members, but often say things that are witty, have a good pun and sometimes cause three page discussions. Celene hates when people hit on her. It doesn't stop them from trying.
Krizz is just social and likes to kill time here during work Tbest is about the same, except tends to be a douche to guys and affectionate toward girls.
Alyria is the most social female, gets groped a lot without provoking it by others, and Tairo ends up stabbing people for it. Cai is just a barrel of lols, I might be gay for him. If I wasn't straight.
Not sure about Citag, s/he's new. Kiriyu is just an in-out kinda person. Says one thing every three days that every guy makes a big fuss over. Ludoggy gets really defensive since she's asian and underage (might be 18 now).
Artem is the wayward soul that makes you ponder the meaning of life by constantly reminding us life can suck. But he deals, and so do we. About the same for Savannah, except people are more "AWH!" to her because of a vagina involved.
Dasva is the ex military man (as is Krizz but this doesn't apply to him) who hates the world and plots a way to destroy most of it.
Number2 is kinda like a mix between Cai and I; never bashes, likes to laugh and has odd avatars. His current suits a lot of the convos this LS gets into. Barti is most well known for his moustache. He gives mousatche rides for a fee. I'm missing a few people but whatever. CARRY ON!
Luelle Smells.
Roster of FFXIAH Ni (as of April 1st, 2010 Pocoyo avatar craze)
One Year Anniversary!!!Asura.Ludoggy said: Happy b-day ls.
Heres my lame gift to AHLS, since Row is lame and took away the OP, I made my own!
Haseyo/Bignose: He's got a bigass nose, Leader of the RL avi revloution or some junk no one gives a crap about...crazy about his asian pop/rock bands and is a closet pedo. AKA LAME
Dameshi: wont level his sam sub and is a lolblu, LAME
Citag: Doesnt put out, Really lame
Dasva: Uses Chu as a cover up for his desire for me greased up and naked on his bed, Lame.
Rydiya/Bra+Panties: Secret lesbien, doesnt wear bra+panties, like to knit and other old people stuff (bingo)
Pikachu/Chu: Hi Chu, I love chu
Kryee/Socks: Noms on socks, wears the sam red pair everyday and frequently sniffs her arm pits.
Cheyne: Domo origoto, Mr Roboto...I think he's gay.
Urial: SOCCER IS LAME AND YOU'RE LAME.
Thundars: LOLCANADIAN
Spence: LOLFRENCHCANADIAN
Enterius/ghost: He's a ghost...he'll say something witty to me later.
Ixe: Ducky face and cant seem to get a straw in her mouth (can get other things in there though)
Mairah: She cool...lame
Bart: Full times OPO-OPO, free mustache rides otherwise LAME
Sav/Mango: Field trips, yay!
Aly/thatgreenmodthatwillbanmeifIsayanythingbad: *tapes*
Woody: You're not Italian...no tea for you.
Sectum: My apprentice...loves asian girls, loves to cook...he's awesome. put me in a story where I wasnt a pedo and that'd cool
Rum:STOP RAIDING MY BASEMENT AND TAKING AWAY MY GIRLS GAWD. Long Islander...lame
Valencea:Wont tell me the color of her undies, you lost the bet...no we cant get married...NO MEANS NO
Kojo:Open pedo...he likes scat, ewww
Tohsou: I think he's a pedo with a girlfriend as cover up, lame.
Kiriyu/strawberry: Lurk Less post moar! I see you what you are doing!
Krizz: Mohawk guy #1
Triet: Mohawk guy #1...wait
Bloodbathboy: The Hulk
Kungfuhustle: AH%DUE%$JNSRGHSRHHEYHEHSA Y%HEDHGSR EAT AHUYY DONKEY NUTS
Celene: Quit...Canadian...who the hell quits?
Tbest: MIA
Eternaltriumph: Where the hell has he been? Is he gone cause he got pussywhipped or something? Whatever...
#2: GOD...I miss him /cry
Luelle/otherlu: The Other Lu.
Zekky: Quit, kicking ass, raped me :\
Krystale/Girlwithpiercing: Magnets stick to her, Toke Canadian, hawt...she's 15 right?
Marzbarz: NINJA
Rowland: All your Pocoyo are belong to...him
Weewoo/Tool: He liked Asura and wont admit it.
Miemo: Has a mithra avi c.c
Kalyna: is a girl right? right? oh...lame
Gimmeurselables: TOO MUCH BOUNCE...TOO BIG, EWWWW
Sagittario: Lame elf whu runs around in a diaper subligar
Ludoggy: Faggot
Edit: The Family Ni Tree
Luelle's (And Citag's too!) birthday present
Pics worth referencing: 
This OP is paid for and sponsored by Stiklelf
Fenrir.Scragg said: Code Rowland 29488 2007-06-24 16:06:00
Ludoggy 26597 2009-02-25 22:31:23
Flionheart 22174 2008-11-17 14:28:15
Krizz 22085 2007-06-30 15:22:38
Haseyo 20875 2009-01-12 15:55:51
Dameshi 19807 2009-02-17 10:29:14
Urial 18636 2008-02-09 01:15:03
Spence 18475 2009-05-04 11:26:27
Kalyna 15001 2010-01-21 11:40:04
Rydiya 13469 2008-05-16 05:24:33
Alyria 12656 2007-10-23 10:58:35
Tigerwoods 10807 2007-03-14 21:10:43
Enternius 10382 2007-08-10 04:14:29
Slipispsycho 10072 2008-09-05 08:56:34
Rumaha 10000 2009-02-20 13:28:03
Kojo 9060 2007-06-30 17:46:02
Sevourn 8567 2009-02-10 00:10:20
Cheyne 8527 2007-04-27 12:27:54
Mabrook 8356 2008-07-01 00:53:38
Marzbarz 7723 2010-01-10 14:12:5
Join date added, banned users filtered.
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