There's no straw man here. I'm still not sure after all this time, and multiple people telling you, you know what that phrase means or how to use it. What I'm saying is entirely related to the topic on hand and relevant to the discussion.
You consider yourself a culturally traditional American male, and like your women in a traditional America Values™ subservient role.
You've said as much countless times.
Obviously you think any attempt for anyone to change that or to not conform to it is wrong and to be met with disdain, ridicule, and other insulting language meant to discredit and degrade the attempt.
Again, unless you feel like telling me how that's incorrect. Or would you rather keep sidestepping the fact with veiled insults and dismissals?