How Come We're Generally "lulwut" Towards Female Sexual Predators?

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How come we're generally "lulwut" towards female sexual predators?
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By Asura.Ludoggy 2009-12-15 23:32:48  
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Perhaps not actually pedophilia but sex with teenagers clearly consenting... don't see why that wont happen.
My guess is slippery slope.
"Well if we let 17year olds...we gotta let 16 year olds...they aint much different....
Well if we let 16 year olds we gotta let 15 year olds...they aint much different. etc."

Since I'm able to wait for my partner to be into the accepted age group to be with I dont have anything to complain about.

But I still feel sorry for the certain people that arent able to do what they want to do.
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By Remora.Belius 2009-12-15 23:40:00  
It exists regardless of whether it was mentioned or not. A child is a child, why children cannot be punished for crimes such as arson while 'trying to light a camp fire in the shed like the movies!'. It is automatically assumed and applied and only on the rarest occasions are they not.

They are of not full capability.
Like the mentally deranged. Primitive, so to speak. Not yet whole.

16 is the legal age in the UK.

Which is a reasonable age, because it is around this time you truly begin exploring your sexual preference, you can make choices, you have been educated about it.

Also the purpose of sexed is not to encourage sexual behaviour as many have been suggesting. The real purpose is to inform them of what is in the ins and outs and let the children understand that this is something nobody can dictate to them. I've sat in sex-ed classes just to see what they are showing the kids, and all of it real, natural and unbiased facts. Without warping the truth and showed all sides of the coin, including homosexual relationships.

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By Remora.Belius 2009-12-15 23:46:19  
Ramuh.Dasva said:
Remora.Belius said:
Asura.Ludoggy said:
I know, I'm just a dreamer.
That went to you, specifically. Leave the gays out of it. They're in equal relationships with each other.
Not if one is always the woman!!!
Choosing and being forced are two different things!
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By Fenrir.Skarwind 2009-12-15 23:47:03  
... If I were 15... I wouldnt have said ***.. she reminds me of Angelina Jolie in a way.

http://femalesexoffenders.blogspot.com/2009/12/michelle-kemp-florida.html
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By Remora.Belius 2009-12-15 23:53:43  
Sometimes, I wish men would put their 2 bit-sized brain before the *** and actually think of what they are saying. Publicly.

That includes you, George doubleya.
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By Ramuh.Dasva 2009-12-16 00:04:12  
Remora.Belius said:
Sometimes, I wish men would put their 2 bit-sized brain before the *** and actually think of what they are saying. Publicly.

That includes you, George doubleya.
Nothing wrong with wanting sex. It's perfectly natural. Also lol at anyone thinking sex ed being there to encourage sex. If anything more like the opposite. They already gunna want it just gotta teach them it there is bad sides and consequences before they find out on there own
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By Asura.Ludoggy 2009-12-16 00:05:57  
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That includes you, George doubleya.
I'm still waiting from some jokes about the current president.
We had some by now for Clinton and W!
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By Ramuh.Dasva 2009-12-16 00:08:48  
Asura.Ludoggy said:
Remora.Belius said:
That includes you, George doubleya.
I'm still waiting from some jokes about the current president. We had some by now for Clinton and W!
Are you serious? There's been jokes about him way before he got to office. Like for example how he would have the shortest term ever if elected lol. Let me see heres a random one...

Q: What is the ObamaCare plan to encourage physical fitness?
A: Higher gas taxes to encourage walking.
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By Sylph.Beelshamen 2009-12-16 02:48:03  
I don't even understand pedophiles, at all.

Just laying aside the fact that they when you get children yourself pedophiles will be one of the biggest fear of a parent, because of the simple fact that they're everywhere.

I don't condone pedophiles because it is purely sexual attraction. Very shallow and extremely sad and pathetic.
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By Ramuh.Dasva 2009-12-16 03:04:38  
That's your opinion!
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By Bahamut.Raenryong 2009-12-16 05:38:20  
This topic is err, wow.

No matter what anyone says, when you're still a child (or on the cusp of puberty) you are not emotionally ready for a sexual relationship.

An adult ignoring this for the sake of his or her own personal pleasure should be punished. It is abusive, whether you "consent" or not. Firstly, there is a lot of peer pressure surrounding the topic of sex so one can feel pressured into it, especially if a much more mature partner is involved - humans naturally will follow (at least to a degree) someone who appears impressive or in control.

Secondly, what children "want" is not necessarily something they should receive. If your child tells you he wants a gun, you are not going to give him one (I should hope). When he is older and more mature, he will realise why this was the case. Children are often too immature to realise the follies and consequences of their actions and so cannot be trusted to make a decision like this.

Just to clarify, my definition of a child here is below the legal age from the perspective of one much older. If you're a 16 year old with a 15 year old girlfriend (using UK legal age here) then I would not consider this morally wrong (though it is legally wrong). However, if you're a 16 year old with a 12 year old girlfriend -- completely different. She is far too immature to be in a sexual relationship, and I doubt most 16 year old guys are mature enough for one either. They may think they are, but there's more to it than just the physical side which is something they often forget.

Wanting paedophilia to be accepted... no. It is irresponsible to take such a young partner. Stick to the anime and stuff if you really can't find attraction in a grown woman, but don't hurt others because of your tendencies. This is called being responsible, as an adult should be.
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By Bahamut.Branwen 2009-12-16 06:01:11  
Wow... just wow. I'm shocked there are so many people condoning this behaviour.
Alot of the argument is that he was probably gagging for it as he was a teenage boy. Noone is discounting that fact. However, this should have been done with someone his own age, not a grown woman. This could be flaunted as a "genuine" relationship, but look she ABUSED TWO 11 YEAR OLDS!

I dont think we should be looking at this from his perspective. It seems its mainly males that are posting and the majority think its awesome he got his end away with a hot older chick.

So, we should look at it from her perspective. Why would a grown woman want to have sex with a child? At 11 I doubt he's gotten very far into his puberty. He'll be everything a man isnt, but a boy is.

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By Ramuh.Dasva 2009-12-16 06:06:30  
She's weird and want's a boy. That's a loss for other men out there and a gain for boys that want to score with an older woman.
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By Sylph.Beelshamen 2009-12-16 06:14:34  
Bahamut.Branwen said:
I'm shocked there are so many people condoning this behaviour.


You'd be surprised at how far people would go even in a modern society.

It's just easier to admit condoning such actions as these when you're semi-anonymous on a forum, I suppose.
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By Cerberus.Katarzyna 2009-12-16 06:28:14  
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Wow... just wow. I'm shocked there are so many people condoning this behaviour.

People will say anything to make viewing their underage Japanese porn legal. Even if it means defending someone who's molested an 11 year old.
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By Carbuncle.Sterling 2009-12-16 07:21:34  
I believe that if it wasn't a problem for the boys then she would have never gotten caught in the first place. If those kids felt that they "scored" and it was "awesome", I don't think they would have spoken against her to get her arrested.

Its also important to note that to say that children as young as 11 are not having sex is a little ridiculous. I've had friends tell me that they lost their virginity at 12 and 13, and I've heard too many stories about kids in elementary school having sex. There are elementary schools that have reported gang rapes and its more common than you might think.
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By Bahamut.Oblivion 2009-12-16 07:24:49  
Welcome to humanity, enjoy your stay.

(and no, I'm not really enjoying my stay, but you should, really. At least someone will be enjoying it. I can hate enough for two people, so go on, live it up. Have a blast.)
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By Bahamut.Kormix 2009-12-16 07:26:01  
Honestly, I'm 32 years old now, married, with an 8 year old daughter of my own. But remembering the the state of mind and sheer curiosity I was a slave to at 11-15 years of age I would have loved to have been "molested" by a woman at that point. A lot of questions and fantasies would have been answered for me. I remember my friends passing around a few pages someone tore out of their dads' pron magazine, and I remember when I got my hands on one of those pages. I must've been mabey 11 or 12 years old. I can remember staring at that (very explicit) picture for a long time, a strange kind of mystification and excitement I'd never known. Wondering exactly how that worked because it didn't really look like something you could put yourself in lol. Yea at that point, I'd have loved to have a real woman come in and show me the goods.

Unless there's something hormonally wrong with a boy at that age, or there's something very wrong with the situation, (like it's incest or someone very nasty), you're probably going to find that most pubescent boys are going to be more than happy to be "molested" by a woman with very little complaint. lol

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By Bahamut.Branwen 2009-12-16 07:32:04  
I dont think anyone is saying kids as young as 11 arent having sex. Schools are littered with teenage pregnancy now. However we're not talking about sex here, we're talking about someone crossing a boundry.

I'm 29 and female and I can say without a shadow of a doubt that I would never consider (even the thought of it makes me cringe) going after a child for sex.

Would we be having the same conversation if this was an 11 year old female and a 33 year old man?
Would it be any different if the woman was older and ugly?

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By Carbuncle.Sterling 2009-12-16 07:33:01  
Plus, if its a sexual act from a person you don't want it from then its always going to be rape. Sure, you might look at the picture of her and think she's hot but those boys may not have felt the same way. For example, my friends think George Clooney is hot but I don't agree. If George Clooney tried to perform sexual acts on them they might feel lucky but if he tried to do it to me, it would be sexual assault.
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By Ifrit.Kungfuhustle 2009-12-16 08:09:38  
I know all you *** wanted to have sex with that smoking hot teacher back in high school.

Women cannot rape men because men always want to ***, thats it. Women aren't so willing because they wanna cuddle/have a relationship/get married/blahblahblah, instead of just shutting up and putting out like shes suppose to.

Kids under 18 should be left alone, that's just wrong.
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By Bahamut.Stanflame 2009-12-16 08:15:25  
............................................ No comment.
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By Ifrit.Kungfuhustle 2009-12-16 08:17:30  
Bahamut.Stanflame said:
............................................ No comment.

but... you just did o.o
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By Remora.Belius 2009-12-16 08:48:31  
I am very very very glad I'm British atm.

How can you say a man can't get raped?
A man can. Rape is not only a physical thing, it's an emotional trauma as well.

Being physically ready for sex and being emotionally ready go hand in hand. This is not about men being threatened of loosing their sexual dominance in the field, so keep the silly arguments out please. Women, like this one, can be just as predatory if that's how they are wired.

Let's see some terribly nasty chick gets you drugged up, forces you to have sex with her, gives you HIV and you can come back and tell me 'OMG AWESOME SCORE!!11oneshiftCAPSLOCK1'.

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By Gilgamesh.Shayala 2009-12-16 09:07:08  
If any predatory woman was to molest my 12 year old son she would have to put up with feeding through a tube for the rest of her life after I had gotten hold of her!
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By Bahamut.Raenryong 2009-12-16 09:38:08  
Ifrit.Kungfuhustle said:
Women cannot rape men because men always want to ***, thats it.

You're attracted to -every- woman on the planet? I can see many women where it would definitely not be consensual. Or maybe I'm just pickier than just "must have a vagina"? I dunno.
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By Kujata.Argettio 2009-12-16 10:01:42  
Bahamut.Raenryong said:
Ifrit.Kungfuhustle said:
Women cannot rape men because men always want to ***, thats it.

You're attracted to -every- woman on the planet? I can see many women where it would definitely not be consensual. Or maybe I'm just pickier than just "must have a vagina"? I dunno.

More of the obvious issue is, for penetration to happen, a man has to be 'in to it' at least on some level other wise your playing pool with rope.

Whereas it is possible for penetration to occur when a man is raping a woman.

Obviously this doesn't a woman can't rape or seriously sexually abuse a man, just that its a more complicated 'process'.
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By Quetzalcoatl.Dawnn 2009-12-16 10:13:21  
Kujata.Argettio said:
Bahamut.Raenryong said:
Ifrit.Kungfuhustle said:
Women cannot rape men because men always want to ***, thats it.

You're attracted to -every- woman on the planet? I can see many women where it would definitely not be consensual. Or maybe I'm just pickier than just "must have a vagina"? I dunno.

More of the obvious issue is, for penetration to happen, a man has to be 'in to it' at least on some level other wise your playing pool with rope.

Whereas it is possible for penetration to occur when a man is raping a woman.

Obviously this doesn't a woman can't rape or seriously sexually abuse a man, just that its a more complicated 'process'.


lol... its possible for women to rape a man, i believe ive heard stories of women shoving objects down a man's urethra or w/e

so graphic! but its happened
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By Quetzalcoatl.Dawnn 2009-12-16 10:15:26  
also for any reason whatsoever

http://www.yelp.com/topic/new-york-three-women-rape-man-for-4-days

lol go read that story

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By Mikumaru 2009-12-16 10:28:27  
This is a case of protecting children . As stated by a few other posters , CHildren dont know what they do or why they do it . Alot of adults dont either , honestly . But anyone who has read a psych book knows certain part of the brain mature differently in each sex . Hence why we have an 'Age of Consent' and 'Statuatory Rape' (sp) . Look at the To Catch a Predator , who focuses only on Men . These men are gettin caught hookin up with underage girls . While they are gettin arrested there is some Underage girl(s) out there hookin up with older guys , potentially ruining thier lives , by either getting pregnant or kidnapped . This highlights my point that young 'adults' dont think these things thru as thorouly as an Adult . Its along the line of Drunken coersion . You meet a girl/guy at a bar or party with Drugs . Your both under the influence . You have sex . When sober , charges can be filed . This is fact . SInce you were under the influence , you arent subject to the same level of responsibility then sober . This is the thought process with Children/young adults . Incapable of knowing what they want or need or the concequenses of the choice made . Just like a drunken Party girl/guy . Is it right , sex with underage people ? No its wrong no matter what sex is committing it . IMHO , hollywood doesnt help with all these Older Famous Axtors Dating much younger women (The dood from Counting Crows who is 45 dating 23 Y/O Emmy Rossum. Catherine Zeta-Jones , 34 , with 60 y/o Michael Douglas . Hayden Pantierre 19/20 with random 35+ y/o .)